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21.09.13 Opinión en LOC de EL MUNDO
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05.2013 Prólogo a la obra de SOPHIE BRAMLY
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27.05.12 Escrito en EL MUNDO
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05.12 Escrito en MUY INTERESANTE num 372
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02.12 Escrito en MUY INTERESANTE num 369
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12.11 Escrito en MUY INTERESANTE num. 367
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10.11 Escrito en GYNEA num. 17
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09.11 Escrito en MUY INTERESANTE num. 364
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07.11 Escrito en MUY INTERESANTE num. 362
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06.07.11 Escrito en VANITY FAIR Italia
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03.11 Escrito en MUY INTERESANTE num. 358
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01.11 Escrito en MUY INTERESANTE num. 356
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11.10 Escrito en MUY INTERESANTE num. 354
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08.10 Escrito en GQ num. 157
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07.10 Escrito en MUY INTERESANTE num. 350
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06.10 Escrito en GQ num. 156
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05.10 Escrito en GQ num. 155
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04.10 Escrito en GQ num. 154
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03.10 Escrito en GQ num. 153
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02.10 Escrito en GQ num. 152
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01.10 Escrito en GQ Num. 151
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01.10 Escrito en GYNEA num. 13
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12.09 Escrito en GQ num. 150
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12.09 Escrito en PRIMERA LÍNEA num. 296
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11.09 Escrito en GQ num. 149
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11.09 Escrito en PRIMERA LÍNEA num. 295
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10.09 Escrito en PRIMERA LÍNEA num. 294
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10.09 Escrito en GQ num. 148
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10.09 Escrito en GYNEA num. 12
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09.09 Escrito en GQ num. 147
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08.09 Escrito en GQ num. 146
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08.09 Escrito en PRIMERA LÍNEA num. 292
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08.09 Escrito en TEMPO Turquia
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07.09 Escrito en PRIMERA LÍNEA num. 291
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07.09 Escrito en TEMPO Turquía
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06.09 Escrito en PRIMERA LÍNEA num. 290
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06.09 Escrito en 5 MAGAZINE
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06.09 Escrito en GQ num. 145
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05.09 Escrito en PRIMERA LÍNEA num. 289
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17.05.09 Escrito en AVUI
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05.09 Escrito en GQ num. 144
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04.09 Escrito en GYNEA núm. 10
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04.09 Escrito en PRIMERA LÍNEA num. 288
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04.09 Escrito en GQ num. 143
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03.09 Escrito en PRIMERA LÍNEA num. 287
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03.09 Escrito en GQ num. 142
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02.09 Escrito en GQ num. 141
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02.09 Escrito en PRIMERA LÍNEA num. 286
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01.09 Escrito en PRIMERA LÍNEA
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01.09 Escrito en GQ num.140
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12.08 Escrito en GQ num. 139
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12.08 Escrito en GYNEA num. 9
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06.12.08 Escrito en LA REPPUBLICA Italia
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31.12.08 Escrito en L'ESPRESSO Italia
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11.08 Escrito en GQ num. 138
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10.08 Escrito en GQ num. 137
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10.08 Escrito en GYNEA num. 8
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09.08 Escrito en GQ num 136
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08.08 Escrito en BARCELONAMAG num 0
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08.08 Escrito en GQ num 135
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07.08 Escrito GYNEA num. 7
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06.08 Escrito en GQ num. 134
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06.08 Prólogo a la exposición FACE NU
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05.08 Escrito en WOMAN
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25.05.08 Escrito SEXOLOGIES num. 17
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25.04.08 Escrito SEXOLOGIES num. 16
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03.2008 Escrito en GYNEA num. 6
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25.03.08 Escrito SEXOLOGIES num. 15
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25.02.08 Escrito en SEXOLOGIES num. 14
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02.08 Epílogo al nuevo libro de Alberto Tugues
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01.2008 Escrito en SEXOLOGIES num. 13
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12.2007 Escrito en GYNEA Num. 5
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12.2007 Escrito en SEXOLOGIES num. 12
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11.2007 Escrito en SEXOLOGIES num. 11
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10.2007 Escrito en SEXOLOGIES num. 10
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09.2007 Escrito en GYNEA num. 4
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06.09.2007 Escrito en L'ESPRESSO Italia
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23.09.2007 Escrito en SEXOLOGIES num. 9
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23.08.2007 Escrito SEXOLOGIES num. 8
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21.07.2007 Escrito SEXOLOGIES num. 7
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25.06.2007 Escrito SEXOLOGIES num. 6
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06.2007 Escrito en GYNEA num. 3
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21.05.2007 Escrito SEXOLOGIES num. 5
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04.2007 Escrito en BEST LIFE
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23.04.2007 Escrito SEXOLOGIES num. 4
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03.2007 Prólogo al libro de Alberto Tugues
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23.03.2007 Escrito SEXOLOGIES num. 3
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03.2007 Escrito en GYNEA
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23.02.2007 Escrito SEXOLOGIES num. 2
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22.01.2007 Escrito SEXOLOGIES num. 1
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10.2007 Prólogo al libro de José María Sanchón


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Textos de primera mano . 07.09 Escrito en TEMPO Turquía

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Escrito en TEMPO (Turquía)
Num. 1105
Julio de 2009



BIRLESME OLMADAN SEKS OLUR MU?

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IS SEX WITHOUT COITUS INCOMPLETE?

I remember perfectly well the first time that I had a wonderful orgasm. I was around 30. Yes, I know, a lot of readers are going to think that I was quite old when I lost my virginity…The fact is that I was not virgin anymore. As I already explained in my first book: “I lost my virginity on 17th July 1984, at 02.46.50 in the morning. When you’re fifteen, you never forget a moment like that”
“There is something wrong”, you are going to say. Yes, there is something wrong, but it has nothing to do with me. There is something wrong and that is that I live in a patriarchal society.

If you ask people what they understand by sexual intercourse, most of them (I am not going to be risky saying that 100% of them…) are going to say that sexual intercourse is synonymous with penetration (coitus, to sound more serious…). Sexuality is always explained from a male point of view. And the legs of our society are three: the phallus, the coitus and the couple. This is the model of our sexuality. The most important practise of this model is the coitus which is the purpose, the big aim of sex. The phallus is the element, within the sexual game, that the model is more worried about. Who, men, do not know how long your penis is? How many women do know how long is her vagina? Another example: why, in the XXI century, we still don’t know if the G-spot exists, if female ejaculation exists, etc…? Perhaps the right question is not if they exist or not, but why we still don’t know about these points.
The couple is by far the most common erotic society of our model, because it is a family model which demands that the fruit of sex has to be protected, educated, humanized, and responsible. Erotic practises which go beyond the couple are still considered anomalies and depravities (like orgies), simple condemned extravagances, caused irrevocably by the lack of love.

Sex without penetration is still inconceivable. If there is no penetration, you don’t have sex, but only an attempt. Or you simply have what we love most to speak about: preliminaries. But the preliminaries only prepare to the big aim: penetration. And if you prefer to play and have preliminaries and then you stop, you will be considered a pervert. Not in vain the first meaning of the word “perversion” is: “any practises which stop in the preliminaries”. For example: watching naked bodies. If you observe a naked person and have an orgasm, everybody is going to accuse you of being a pervert. Nevertheless, you are not hurting someone. You are just having sex.

Sigmund Freud, with his psychoanalysis, helped to feed and reinforce this idea. He made the difference between mature and immature women. Mature women were women who had vaginal orgasms and immature women had only clitoral orgasms. We are still living with this idea. Female sexuality is such a mystery that it is better to be a “vaginal” or a “clitoral” woman. Nobody explains that the vagina has no nervous endings and that the coitus, in our case, does not result in orgasm.

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